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Marriage isn’t easy, even in the best of times. But in the worst of times–when a marriage is going through a period of difficulty–marriage can be quite demanding. This is why divorce is so common nowadays. There is, however, a method in which a couple can deal with a marriage in crisis.

Don't turn your back.

Don’t turn your back.

This method works no matter what type of crisis the couple is hit with, whether it is a death or illness in the family, a natural disaster, trouble with the law, problems with children, or some other type of issue.

How can couples deal with a critical juncture in their marriage? The basic method involves having a plan in place ahead of time, before such an eventuality occurs. In other words, the couple needs to know how to handle an emergency or urgent problems before any type of predicament happens. The tactics outlined below will suffice for most couples in working out most any type of critical situation. By following these suggestions, couples should be able to deal with any marriage crisis as it arises.

Try to work it out.

Try to work it out.

1. Do not blame each other for the circumstances or situation that you are in. Blaming does not solve anything, and it could make things worse as it can increase hostility between the two of you. Instead, be in control of your own actions and be supportive of your spouse’s needs.

2. Try to lower your expectations of how everyday life should function when dealing with a marriage predicament. For example, you may need to eat meals out more often rather than cooking at home as you usually would. Or, you may have to let the housekeeping slide if there isn’t time to handle the regular daily upkeep of the home.

3. Do not expect your spouse to pick up your slack as far as everyday life activites go; instead, consider hiring outside help or asking friends for assistance. By not placing extra work on your spouse, the difficult period in your life will likely be less traumatic because you will be able to rely on your spouse for support.

4. Make sure that you are communicating well with your spouse. Do not use harsh language when speaking; rather, use calm, patient wording. Speak to your spouse as you would like your spouse to speak to you. Without good, strong communication, a marriage crisis can turn into material for a divorce and this is definitely not what anyone wants. So, be open-minded when having discussions and be sure to listen to your spouse’s point of view. Above all else, be able to forgive and move on if there are any issues with miscommunication.

5. Approach the situation together. A marriage in crisis is a problem for the couple, not for one spouse or the other; therefore, both people in the marriage need to work together in order to be able to get past the trauma. Working together can mean facing the problem as one or it can mean getting therapy as a couple; this will depend upon the exact crisis that the couple is having.

Kiss and make up.

Kiss and make up.

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